Resolutions that Stick

2024 can be your year to shine.

Anjil ✨
Jan 1, 2024
4 min read

As January 1, 2024 dawns, it's time to set resolutions for the year. However, it's common to forget, neglect, or struggle to achieve these goals. Regardless, reflecting on our aspirations is vital for personal growth. Reviewing 2023 and setting resolutions for 2024 has become a trend, with opinions varying. Personally, I find it an invaluable practice.

I firmly believe in action and hard work. In 2023, I didn't craft annual resolutions easily due to my lack of foresight. Instead, I set monthly goals, achieving 12 significant milestones by year-end. This involved launching web apps, writing a book, conducting an online graphics course, and freelancing as a design consultant while working full-time as a UX designer. I explored numerous domains and honed my skills extensively.

During weekdays, I dedicated around 2000 hours to Product Design as a full-time UX Designer, working on multiple large-scale enterprise projects. Weekends were devoted to honing various skill sets, from Product Management and Frontend Development to Digital Arts and Writing, aiming to understand my potential and preferences.

New Year's resolutions often fizzle out within weeks. What if this year could be different? What if there was a secret to crafting resolutions that truly endure and pave the way for an extraordinary 2024?

Why Most Resolutions Bite the Dust

Mount Everest on Monday

We set goals that resemble mythical feats, leaving us gasping for air before we even reach the first base camp. Instead, embrace SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. "Get in shape" becomes "Run 3 times a week for 30 minutes by June." See the difference?

Perfection's Poison

Ditch the rigid mindset that screams "failure" at every stumbled step. Instead, embrace progress over perfection. Every misstep is a learning opportunity, every setback a chance to pivot. Celebrate small wins, acknowledge your efforts, and remember, even the mightiest journeys begin with a single, wobbly step.

Adrift at Sea

Leaving your resolutions to chance is like setting sail without a compass. Break down your goals into actionable steps, create a realistic plan, and find an accountability partner to cheer you on and keep you honest. A supportive friend, family member, or online community can be your wind in the sails.

The Secret Recipe

Find Your "Why"

What sets your soul on fire? What makes you jump out of bed each morning? Connecting your resolutions to a deeper purpose is the fuel that keeps you going. Ask yourself, "What do I truly want to achieve? Who do I want to become?" When goals are rooted in your core values, they become less like chores and more like exhilarating adventures.

Lifestyle, Not a Sprint

Ditch the "crash and burn" mentality. Resolutions are investments in your well-being, not temporary adrenaline rushes. Focus on incorporating tiny, sustainable habits into your daily routine. Ten minutes of mindful breathing can reduce stress. Five minutes of journaling can clear your head. Small ripples lead to lasting waves.

Progress, Not Perfection:

Mistakes are inevitable, hiccups are expected. Don't let a blip derail your entire journey. Forgive yourself, learn from your setbacks, and get back on track with renewed determination. Remember, progress is rarely linear; it's a messy, beautiful dance towards your goals.

Building Your Resolution Fortress

Stay on Track

Utilize planners, apps, or even a good old-fashioned notebook to monitor your progress, celebrate milestones, and identify areas for improvement. Seeing your journey unfold in tangible ways is a powerful motivator. Bonus tip: Try Google Calendar!

Find Your Tribe

You don't have to walk this path alone. Surround yourself with people who believe in you and your goals. Share your journey, celebrate successes together, and pick each other up when the road gets bumpy. Remember, not everyone will be your cheerleader, but that's okay. Focus on those who truly support you.


Do one thing. Do anything aligned with your goals. If it doesn't help you move forward, let it go. Embrace mistakes, forgive setbacks, and move on with newfound determination. There are no secret formulas or shortcuts to success, just hard work, dedication, and a healthy dose of kindness to yourself.

This year, I've outlined my own achievable goals, and I encourage you to do the same. What about you? Let's share our journeys, hold each other accountable, and make 2024 a year of growth, joy, and resolutions that finally stick!

© 2024 Anjil Bishowkarma
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